Does He Still Love His Ex? 10 Signs He Wants To Get Back With His Ex

Just last week I stupidly had a conversation with my ex thinking it was safe. It has taken me 5 days to start to recover after he pretty much defamed everything I have done in the last year which I have felt so good about. You will come up with many examples of how he loves you or is nice to you. You will also notice you no longer know what your true feelings are and you will be getting very confused. He is going to do anger management, he is going to pay his half of the bills – he is going to do this, that and everything. And yes I too have gotten mean back, and I too have gotten aggressive back via facebook.

He listens to songs about lost love and spews hateful things about her.

We then had our son, we got engaged and I was blissfully happy. Sometimes you make the mistake of sleeping with your ex’s best friend. It could have happened while you were dating your ex or after you broke up with him. Still the fact remains that you did sleep with his best friend. Now you want to talk to your ex about it but not really sure how. GoDateNow is a dating community for mature men and Slavic women.

He’s never satisfied with nothing I do. He’d rather hang out with his friends which I have no problem with. But I can do without him starting arguments to feel better about himself.

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Are there really no services to support you? After 9 years there is not a chance that your situation is getting anything but worse. What is in me, is in you, is in all the women who slept in dirty hostels, friend’s sofas, relatives that don’t want them, even homeless with their children, no money, no housing, no work. Please, are you really different to us?

I never knew the leaving would be more difficult that all the crazy behaviour I’ve endured. I am trying to be nice but I just feel like I am in a battle every day. A battle between what he is telling me and what the truth is. I figured at our ages we both have some issues and I’m not sure, I am confused. I’ve always been a very level headed person, stable, I am very aware that people are attracted to me because of my stability and honesty, straight forward responses when discussing things. He’s disrupting our routine as my baby will not sleep til he’s home and sometime that’s not til the next day so say she falls asleep finally 5am.

Then he calls his friend while I was at work to take him to the emergency room leaving me stuck with all his belongings at the hospital which I brought to him. I should have just left to be with my son. He was eventually sent to a homeless mission. But I helped him get out of there, get his job back and bought him clothes and got him a place to stay.

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We did lots of things, he showered me with gifts, seemed to like to ‘dress’ me – ie. Choose me clothes and present me with them. I had two children from my first marriage and he made strenuous efforts to win their regard. This meant that my second husband had an easy task with them because they wanted a happy ending with a secure family – as any child does.

He manipulated me, isolated me geographically, physically and emotionally. There are so many wonderful people out there willing to support everybody here. My soon to be ex-husband literally used the same phrase, but he has learned to tie everything in a knot first. He is here to “anticipate my needs” but when I actually express a need I get a round of excuses and somehow it turns into my fault that I have a need. It’s a great phrase for manipulation because it’s like dangling a carrot – or in your case Elizabeth he is using it as a dagger.

And when he wasn’t happy, I felt like I was being a terrible girlfriend by not doing everything I could to make him happy. I was in a relationship last year with a guy who was very emotionally abusive but I didn’t know that till now. I could answer no to all those questions and on the list of ways guys can try to emotionally abuse someone, he was doing one of or multiple things out of 11 categories. I was going though a rough time last year before I met him (my parents had just split after long time in an unhappy house. I was grieving a close loved one. First of all I want to say my heart goes out to everyone of you ladies. But now I’m so confused with everything going on in my life and I’m not sure if it’s my hormones and endometriosis pain that’s made me feel lower then my issues with my partner.

Everyone in my family has relationships that make me feel sad. Gosh I wanted to run away ever since I remember but couldn’t or didn’t because I had 3 younger sisters that I thought needed to be protected. I’m staying with him because we are expecting our second child, because I love him, because I’d like a family but this is coming at a high price and I’m the one paying for it. I hope one day he can realize that I’m not his enemy, that I deserve love and appreciation.